Live in Relationship.....

Today, many people have negative aspects on live in relationship, many of us think that it is not good for Indian culture because it gives negative thinking in young generation. No doubt our supreme court too had given her decision on its favor that live in relationship is not an offence, but still many of us take live in relationship as it will effect the mind of young people leading to decay the moral values of country's ethos.

I want to ask question to them who are still against the couples who stay with each other before marriage. I want to ask the society why she treat them like a strange human being, only because they have not married, but i want to tell them that according to hindu mythology Lord Krishna and Radha too stay with each other. According to me first we have to think why couples wants to go in live in relationship... before raising finger on them. and why supreme court too gave her decision on its favor, and to know the reason first we have to go through the history of his or her life. This is very true that today we all want emotional attachment, and when it comes to opposite sex emotional attachment spread its sheet. Because now a days we all are going through loads of mental stress, and in this journey we want to sit for few minutes along with the person whom we think comfort.

Today in our country India, more than 85% of students peruse their school life at boarding, they came to know the right and wrong aspects of life in boarding only, and in this journey the role of affection and love changes. As they are away from parents they think shall I say this point to my parents or not or shall I say that point to my parents or not, and the question comes what they will think, and the answer which mind gives is that No, not to say because they will become tensed. No matter what the point is based about, from this gap starts and we start sharing those points with our friends as well as when it comes to opposite sex we start feeling much more comfortable. After boarding they comes into college life, and the things changes the strictness of boarding just evaporates. There are many students who starts their hostel life from college, and the same thing starts with them too. Friends become care taker. And as i said earlier when we come in contact with opposite sex, we become more comfortable. A stage comes when that the single person becomes the whole world for him or her and finally we give the name of love.

Now the point comes of commitment, because we all know that loving is quite different thing and commitment is quite different. There will be multiple answers for this "WHY" when the both person love each other and have committed too then WHY they want to go in a live in relationship, its better to marry. But as its well said that," Its better to have a live in relation ship rather than having a divorced life." Because there are many cases pending in our courts which shows that after getting married the thing and mutual understanding didn't worked and a happy love life which was before marriage comes on a stage of divorce. So to make sure that they are compatible before going through a life time commitment to each other they opt live in relationship. Because research says that most couple who live together will get married some day, and within five years slightly have of them definitely also do. AS they are in love so they want to spend more time with each other before marriage.

According to study spending two three hours with your love is quite different thing and spending twenty four hours is different, you know the person a lot. Now society raises the question of traditional and customs. As this not suits to Indian society. But history is witness that when ever any change had taken place, first this society comes as a speed breaker, either it is Sati pratha, Child marriage or any thing, because this is fact the generation who revolts against the system faces the problem and the next coming generation grow in a new soil with a new rays of sun light.

The study receive a great deal of publicity because conservative groups use them to try to revive traditional marriage, with no cohabitation and no sex before marriage. Rather than trying to scare people living away from each other when its already so wide spread. Its very important to help couples living together to have strong healthy relationship.......